Friday, April 8, 2011

WEDNESDAY was the BEST DAY & NiGHT

it STARTS with seeing THIS truck ; EVERY-TIME i see this TRUCK i have the BEST day !

DROVE to LONG BEACH (my stomping grounds) to visit a FRIEND , we HIT the beach

then hit

BUONA GENTE

a DOPE iTALIAN restaurant near the BEACH

home for a DISCO nap; then OFF to T.G.I. Fridays w/ my 2 HOMIES

this SHOT is called " the BLACK OUT " & my MEAN friends made me ingest 2!! look @ the pic on top , theres 3 GLASSES stacked .. lol

OFF to the B.I. ( BRANDiN iRON ) in San Bernardino

my 2 NEW friends .. met them THAT night .. GOOD times !!!

HE SHALL remain NAMELESS

EPIC FAIL ---> Dress Shoes w/ COTTON ankle SOCKS ??? are you SERIOUS my DUDE ???

WIZ KHALIFA FT. CHEVY WOODS - TAYLOR GANG

Nobody Wants an Ambitious Girl

i like this poem, song, spoken word, track, I don’t know what to call it, it’s original. I’m real happy for Wale, and imma let him finish, but…I can’t cosign on this one. I want to, but if I did, women would have full custody…I mean, right, to call every man in America, a hypocrite. Men want a woman with ambition, that’s true, but we only want her ambition to go as far as it can without infringing on our ambition.

Scenario: A rapper has just been signed to a multi-album deal with a fat advance. He’s dating a lawyer who is representing a group of clients who are set to win $350 million in compensatory and punitive damages in a class action lawsuit. “Can you put your rap career on hold for a moment so that we can win this trial? I’m sure that after this, I’ll be set for life and can even give you financial support to chase your dreams.”

She even said, “We.” But you know how this scenario ends…

Based on the logic of “Ambitious Girl” I’m trying to find out why so many successful ambitious Black sisters are single. And I’m drawing a blank. If ambition was celebrated then ambitious women wouldn’t be single, they wouldn’t have to lower their standards to find dates, they wouldn’t have to put up with tons of crap and drama to find a date, and there wouldn’t be a need for this song.

It’s no secret that in our community, Black men have been playing second fiddle to Black women for a long time. (Blame unemployment, heroin, crack, infatuation with blowing money fast that leads to bad credit and absurd amounts of debt, I’m just saying…) Yet, we still have never gotten used to it or embraced it. Currently, we’re still deliberating on whether a man is okay with dating a woman who makes more money than him. Furthermore, men don’t want a woman who they think doesn’t have time for them. They don’t want to date a woman who asks her significant other to work around her schedule. Ask female doctors, they’re single, because men can’t deal with their schedules. Not only can they not deal with it, but they can’t even comprehend the nature of it.

So that’s why I say, I can only cosign this track, with the caveat, “as long as it doesn’t infringe on my ambition.” And to me that’s just insecure, why should I ask for someone to yield way to me, but I won’t extend to them the same liberty? Bringing me to my next point, do you guys remember when Jay-Z said, “Is it “Black Girl Lost” or shorty owe you for ice?” I’m not calling Wale inconsistent, but what I’m saying is a lot of men will tell you they want an ambitious girl, but they don’t even attempt to talk to them. Successful Black men talk about wanting to be a power couple, but they go to the club and talk to jumpoffs and groupies.

Successful Black man: But I don’t date the women I meet in the club.
Me: Have you ever spent $2,000 on a date?
Successful Black man: Hell no.
Me: But you spend that on the groupies in the club. Hmm…

I’ll believe this track when I see more ambitious girls in relationships. I’ll believe this right around the time that men stop complaining about women in the club with no money in their pocket, but yet these women are still in the club, in fact, they’ve always been in the club and they are going to still be in the club. I’ll believe this track when it comes on and every guy who is funneling Patron down a sister’s throat, stops doing so, and they line up single file and walk out of the club.

By the way, I can’t wait for this music video. That’s going to be the best part. After all, part of me believes that a lot of these singles that Wale has been dropping have to do with backlash from the Pretty Girls video. (Had he let me produce it, I would have told him to go extra-Drake and just cast nothing but the baddest “urban” models in the industry, because it was a no-win situation.) Women will be looking for a piece of themselves in the video. They will wonder why none of the women look“average” or “normal”.

Wait, I thought…I mean, does being ambitious make you average?

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Wednesday, April 6, 2011

when i FEEL like im LOOSiNG control

i ALTER my GOALS .. take out visions , take DOWN things already accomplished , ADD new ones , etc ... its like collaging , ONLY without a GLUE stick on a board LOL .. centers me .

missionaries to HAITI

KEEP my MOM & our 3 OTHER members in PRAYER .. they are in HAITI under HORRIBLE conditions STILL bringing the GOOD NEWS ..

Tuesday, April 5, 2011

Wiz & Rose

just breakfast ..

Belgian Waffle , Turkey Bacon , & Egg Whites

the KARDASHIANS

seriously because i was SOOOOOOOO bad growing up .. i know imma have ALL girls and commit suicide LOL .. j/k on the suicide part ..

RAW

source : www.necolebitchie.com

On her Sexual Fantasies
“Being submissive in the bedroom is really fun. You get to be a little lady, to have somebody be macho and in charge of your shit. That’s fun to me…I like to be spanked. Being tied up is fun. I like to keep it spontaneous. Sometimes whips and chains can be overly planned – you gotta stop, get the whip from the drawer downstairs. I’d rather have him use his hands.
On wanting a man to take charge
“I think I’m a bit masochistic, [***the condition in which sexual gratification depends on suffering, physical pain, and humiliation] and I did not realize it until recently. I think that is common in people who witnessed abuse in their childhood
On easing up on the Restraining Order against Chris Brown
That’s my decision. It doesn’t mean we’re gonna make up, or even talk again. It just means I didn’t want to object to the judge.”
On her current relationship with Chris
“We don’t have to talk ever again in my life. I just didn’t want to make it more difficult for him professionally. What he did was a personal thing – it had nothing to do with his career. Saying he has to be a hundred feet away from me, he can’t perform at awards shows – that definitely made it difficult for him.”
On Sexting
When you’re not with the person you want to be intimate with, a picture is the next best thing. Skype is safer, but a picture lasts a long time. When you’re alone, and those horny moments come up, pictures can be very handy.”

Oh, and If any of you ladies are envious of Rihanna’s figure, she divulges that her secret is a diet of Cheetos and Kentucky Fried Chicken. Be careful though, Rihanna states:“Your t*ts and ass are the first to go.”