Monday, April 11, 2011

" i DON'T need a [ m a n ] that has MILLIONS, i need a [man] that can F*&*! me , take care of me , and who has VALUES " - Sonja

** AMEN SISTER!! its NEVER about the $$$ guys .... **

i knew i LOVED the housewives of New York City !!! SONJA is one of my favs .. NEXT to the LOVELY BETHANY of course !! lol

Ashton Kutcher, Demi Moore fight sex slavery

"Modern-day slavery is such a complicated issue, but we're trying to do what we can to make men think twice before they engage in this," says Moore, 48, as she prepares to leave the secretive location of CAST, the Coalition to Abolish Slavery & Trafficking. "The message to the guys is, these girls aren't who you think they are."

Today, Moore and Kutcher, 33, begin beaming their anti-sex-trafficking message around the world. Harnessing Kutcher's social media clout — he has 6.5 million Twitterfollowers — and capitalizing on friendships with the likes of Sean Penn and Justin Timberlake, they've created a series of video clips with the slogan "Real Men Don't Buy Girls" that they hope will go viral and raise awareness (see them at facebook.com/dnafoundation).

"Our doing this is not some sort of career strategy thing," says Kutcher, whose Demi and Ashton Foundation targets the sexual exploitation of minors. "In fact, I'd probably be doing a lot better in my career if I focused a little more on that and less on this stuff."

Wendy Williams v.s. Amethyst Woodard

i NEVER read ESSENCE magazine .. but this particular issue , i picked up & read because i GET COMPARED to Wendy Williams all the time . i know its because of our RACKS . lol but in actuality , while READiNG the article on her , we are MORE alike than i thought . i ENCOURAGE anybody who CANT figure me out and WHO wants alittle more insight on me , to READ that article .. the ONLY difference between her & i is MY 40 DDD's are REAL , & HERS are iMPLANTS & i WEAR WEAVES & she WEARS WIGS .. oh & shes married w/ a kid . im SiNGLE . LOVES it .

19yr. old SHOT in the TACO BELL drive-thru

RIALTO, Calif. (KABC) -- The search is on for a gunman who shot and killed a 19-year-old going through a drive-thru in Rialto.

It is a devastating loss for Joshua Huizar's family. His family and friends are demanding justice for a life cut short.

Mourners gathered around a makeshift memorial, just feet away from the Taco Bell drive-thru where Huizar was gunned down.

"I just can't put it into words," said mother Elsa Huizar. "But I just want the person caught that took my boy's life. He didn't deserve that."

The deadly violence happened around 1 a.m. Sunday at the Taco Bell on the 12000 block of East Baseline Road.

Huizar's girlfriend, who was in the car with him, said it all happened so fast.

"It was like a dream," said Viridiana Sanchez. "We were just hungry, and wanted to come here and eat. And that guy just pulled up, pulled a gun out. He wanted to rob us, but we didn't have money. He got mad, and he shot him."

Sanchez said the gunman walked up to the car and wanted money and their cellphones. That's when Huizar tried to drive away, but the suspect opened fire.

Paramedics tried frantically to save Huizar's life, but he was pronounced dead at the hospital. His girlfriend wasn't hurt. Police are now searching for the killer.

"He should be considered dangerous," said Officer David Shepherd from Rialto Police. "The detectives are looking at similar crimes that may have occurred in the area, to see if there is any commonality and looking at any leads that they may have to find this guy."

At this point police only have a vague description of the suspect. Huizar's friends and family are asking for the public's help.

"I want to see him caught," said Rosa Jimenez who is Huizar's aunt. "So he doesn't do this to anybody else."

Detectives are checking the restaurant security cameras to see if there is a good shot of the suspect. If you have any information call Rialto Police at (909) 820-2590.

on the GO

my ROOM is sooo NOT organized the way i like it to BE .. lol GUCCI BAGS (yes the black one is ALSO GUCCI too) , Anne Klein work bag , my CHOCOLATE motorcycle BOOTS , clothes , jewelry , etc ....

Friday, April 8, 2011

yup , CHEF AMETHYST

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WEDNESDAY was the BEST DAY & NiGHT

it STARTS with seeing THIS truck ; EVERY-TIME i see this TRUCK i have the BEST day !

DROVE to LONG BEACH (my stomping grounds) to visit a FRIEND , we HIT the beach

then hit

BUONA GENTE

a DOPE iTALIAN restaurant near the BEACH

home for a DISCO nap; then OFF to T.G.I. Fridays w/ my 2 HOMIES

this SHOT is called " the BLACK OUT " & my MEAN friends made me ingest 2!! look @ the pic on top , theres 3 GLASSES stacked .. lol

OFF to the B.I. ( BRANDiN iRON ) in San Bernardino

my 2 NEW friends .. met them THAT night .. GOOD times !!!

HE SHALL remain NAMELESS

EPIC FAIL ---> Dress Shoes w/ COTTON ankle SOCKS ??? are you SERIOUS my DUDE ???

WIZ KHALIFA FT. CHEVY WOODS - TAYLOR GANG

Nobody Wants an Ambitious Girl

i like this poem, song, spoken word, track, I don’t know what to call it, it’s original. I’m real happy for Wale, and imma let him finish, but…I can’t cosign on this one. I want to, but if I did, women would have full custody…I mean, right, to call every man in America, a hypocrite. Men want a woman with ambition, that’s true, but we only want her ambition to go as far as it can without infringing on our ambition.

Scenario: A rapper has just been signed to a multi-album deal with a fat advance. He’s dating a lawyer who is representing a group of clients who are set to win $350 million in compensatory and punitive damages in a class action lawsuit. “Can you put your rap career on hold for a moment so that we can win this trial? I’m sure that after this, I’ll be set for life and can even give you financial support to chase your dreams.”

She even said, “We.” But you know how this scenario ends…

Based on the logic of “Ambitious Girl” I’m trying to find out why so many successful ambitious Black sisters are single. And I’m drawing a blank. If ambition was celebrated then ambitious women wouldn’t be single, they wouldn’t have to lower their standards to find dates, they wouldn’t have to put up with tons of crap and drama to find a date, and there wouldn’t be a need for this song.

It’s no secret that in our community, Black men have been playing second fiddle to Black women for a long time. (Blame unemployment, heroin, crack, infatuation with blowing money fast that leads to bad credit and absurd amounts of debt, I’m just saying…) Yet, we still have never gotten used to it or embraced it. Currently, we’re still deliberating on whether a man is okay with dating a woman who makes more money than him. Furthermore, men don’t want a woman who they think doesn’t have time for them. They don’t want to date a woman who asks her significant other to work around her schedule. Ask female doctors, they’re single, because men can’t deal with their schedules. Not only can they not deal with it, but they can’t even comprehend the nature of it.

So that’s why I say, I can only cosign this track, with the caveat, “as long as it doesn’t infringe on my ambition.” And to me that’s just insecure, why should I ask for someone to yield way to me, but I won’t extend to them the same liberty? Bringing me to my next point, do you guys remember when Jay-Z said, “Is it “Black Girl Lost” or shorty owe you for ice?” I’m not calling Wale inconsistent, but what I’m saying is a lot of men will tell you they want an ambitious girl, but they don’t even attempt to talk to them. Successful Black men talk about wanting to be a power couple, but they go to the club and talk to jumpoffs and groupies.

Successful Black man: But I don’t date the women I meet in the club.
Me: Have you ever spent $2,000 on a date?
Successful Black man: Hell no.
Me: But you spend that on the groupies in the club. Hmm…

I’ll believe this track when I see more ambitious girls in relationships. I’ll believe this right around the time that men stop complaining about women in the club with no money in their pocket, but yet these women are still in the club, in fact, they’ve always been in the club and they are going to still be in the club. I’ll believe this track when it comes on and every guy who is funneling Patron down a sister’s throat, stops doing so, and they line up single file and walk out of the club.

By the way, I can’t wait for this music video. That’s going to be the best part. After all, part of me believes that a lot of these singles that Wale has been dropping have to do with backlash from the Pretty Girls video. (Had he let me produce it, I would have told him to go extra-Drake and just cast nothing but the baddest “urban” models in the industry, because it was a no-win situation.) Women will be looking for a piece of themselves in the video. They will wonder why none of the women look“average” or “normal”.

Wait, I thought…I mean, does being ambitious make you average?

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Wednesday, April 6, 2011

when i FEEL like im LOOSiNG control

i ALTER my GOALS .. take out visions , take DOWN things already accomplished , ADD new ones , etc ... its like collaging , ONLY without a GLUE stick on a board LOL .. centers me .